How to Find Your Brand Voice (And Why It Matters)
- Michelle English
- 2 days ago
- 3 min read

To find your brand voice, identify three adjectives that describe your personality, write exactly how you speak in real life, and avoid using corporate jargon. A strong brand voice builds trust by making a business feel human and relatable rather than faceless and corporate.
If you cover up the logo on your website, could your audience tell that the words were written by you?
For most small businesses, the answer is no. Most small business websites and social media feeds sound exactly like their competitors because the owners think they need to sound "professional."
In the business world, "professional" usually translates to boring, stiff, and completely devoid of personality. It results in copy that sounds like it was generated by a robot (or worse, a corporate committee).
People do not buy from small businesses because they want a corporate experience. They buy from small businesses because they want a human connection. Let's look at how to strip away the corporate stiffness and find a brand voice that actually attracts your ideal clients.
Why Brand Voice Matters More Than Logos
You can spend $5,000 on a beautiful logo and a custom color palette, but if your captions read like a legal disclaimer, people will not connect with you.
Your brand voice is how you make people feel. It is the tone of your emails, the humor in your Instagram Stories, and the empathy on your sales page. A strong brand voice acts as a filter: it magnetically attracts the people who resonate with your personality, and it actively repels the people who would be a nightmare to work with.
(Read next: The Power of Saying No in Business)
3 Steps to Define Your Brand Voice
Finding your voice does not require a marketing degree. It just requires self-awareness and the courage to be yourself.
1. The 3-Adjective Rule
Pick three adjectives that describe how you want your business to feel to a client.
•Are you Warm, Nurturing, and Patient?
•Are you Direct, Sarcastic, and Results-Driven?
•Are you Quirky, Creative, and Energetic?
Once you pick your three adjectives, every piece of content you write must pass through that filter. If your adjectives are "Warm and Nurturing," you cannot write an aggressive, high-pressure sales email.
2. Write How You Speak
The easiest way to fix stiff copy is to read it out loud.
If you wrote: "We provide comprehensive synergistic solutions to elevate your digital footprint," read it out loud. Would you ever say that to a friend over coffee? No. You would say, "We help you get more clients online."
Write the way you speak. Use contractions (don't, can't, won't). Start sentences with "And" or "But." Use the industry slang your clients actually use.
3. Take a Stand
A strong brand voice has opinions. If you try to please everyone, you will connect with no one.
What is a common practice in your industry that you completely disagree with? Talk about it. If you are a fitness coach who hates diet culture, write a post about why diets are terrible. It will alienate people who love diets, but it will create fierce loyalty among the people who agree with you.
The Fear of Being Unprofessional
Many business owners are terrified that if they use humor, sarcasm, or casual language, large clients will not take them seriously.
This is a myth. Large corporate clients are run by human beings. Human beings are tired of reading boring corporate jargon. They want to work with people they actually like. As long as your work is excellent and you deliver on your promises, your personality will be seen as a breath of fresh air, not a liability.
FAQ: Developing a Brand Voice
Q: Can I change my brand voice later?
A: Yes, brand voices evolve as you and your business mature. However, try to avoid wild swings in tone from week to week, as this confuses your audience.
Q: I have a team of three people writing content. How do we keep the voice consistent?
A: Create a "Brand Voice Guide." It should be a one-page document listing your three adjectives, words you always use, and words you never use. Give this to anyone who writes for your company.
Q: What if my natural voice is boring?
A: Nobody is truly boring. You might just be highly analytical or introverted. If so, lean into that! Your brand voice can be "Calm, Data-Driven, and Precise." That appeals to a very specific, high-paying type of client.
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